Why yes, yes I do... just like I need another hole in my head....

In fact, I wanted to call some attention to a nice little ad I saw on "teh internats" today: Wow, now if I knew for sure that the person on the other end of the chat session was, 1) a girl, and 2) looked like the girl above... 24/7... I would be all about chatting with "sexy singles" and I would probably spend so much time doing it that I wouldn't leave the house....

Fortunately for me, I know better. I also know that the girls they use in the ads look nothing like the girls who join these sites who usually have the lowest, worst, unimaginably horrible self esteem.

I've definitely dated a few girls with low self esteem, hell if I wanted to be super honest I would probably even say that I had contributed to the lowering of aforementioned self esteem once we were dating (not that I'm so spectacular that everyone around me ends up hating themselves... but more like I can be a pretty big asshole when I really set my mind to it... not that I set my mind to it... it just seems to happen).

I think what I need more than anything, certainly more than some sexy piece of ass, is a person who is confident in who they are, confident that they want to be with me, and is willing to love me at my worst. I say that because I truly believe that there is no such thing as the "perfect" relationship, but there are people who are "perfect" for one another in the sense that they can accept the other person's faults completely, hands down without condition.

Well, no news flash there, in fact that's probably something that I have actually believed since I was 15 (so like a billion years ago), but I haven't really applied it to my life.

In addition to some other changes I am making in my life, I have vowed, resolved, promised myself, that the next girl isn't going to just be a hot piece of ass, a young piece of ass, a tight vajayjay, big knockers, or any combination of these as a qualifier for dating. Those things are all very nice, but the next girl is going to need to have a real personality, some goals, some accomplishments, and even some failures that she has learned from....

....let's hope anyways... let's hope....

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